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The couple, nicknamed "the Dutch Bonnie and Clyde" by the Dutch media after the infamous late American outlaws and robbers, are described by the police as "very dangerous."
Police say Marcos Antonio van der Ploeg
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They kidnapped a male member of the family in his own car and later released him across the border in Germany.
Police say they have also been involved in other robberies and kidnappings in the last three weeks.
The duo were held by police late December last year after a car chase in Groningen in northern Netherlands
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It seems unlikely that anyone could improve his or her marriage in one evening. Well read on! Any positive step in the right direction is an improvement that will continue as long as the efforts continue to be made.
As our recent MarriageAdvice poll showed, more than 40% of our 207 respondents identified that the single biggest frustration in their marriage was that their husbands "Didn't Communicate Enough".
Below is a 8-step process to insure that both partners are communicating well.
Step #1 - Decide To Communicate
There are really only two options when it comes to communicating...either you do it or your don't. It's better to try and communicate and fumble around a bit than ignore the problem until it explodes like a pent up volcano.
The wise spouse will work to resolve and discuss their feelings before the lava of scalding words overflows.
Part of deciding to communicate will include setting aside a time each week to discuss family needs and concerns. This would also be a good time to resolve any minor conflicts that have arisen during the week but weren't fully taken care of previously.
Step #2 - Choose A Good Time
If a more heated conflict occurs, it's important to find the right time to discuss the matter. Waiting for your scheduled night for communicating would not be the best idea; however, taking a little time to give both partners time to cool off is important as well.
Working to resolve a big conflict should wait until a time when both parties are not wrung out, angry
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Additionally, as we allow ourselves time to calm down, we are better able to carefully think about what is really bothering us besides this specific event. In many cases, the topic of the current disagreement may not be the real problem.
As we take time to ponder and look for the root of the problem
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It's much easier to resolve a problem when we have a better perspective of what is really going on inside of our head and heart.
Step #3 - Neutralize Defenses
Before you have a deep discussion on something that is bothering you, consider two things. First, your spouse will be more receptive to the discussion if you reinforce your love, and express appreciation and confidence in their many attributes.
Second
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However,if you said, "When you make fun of me in front of our friends, it embarrasses me and I feel angry and frustrated
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Step #4 - Use Humor
Like they say, "laughter is the best medicine". It's true, physiologically
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Many things that were painful or frustrating at the time can be viewed with great humor years later.
Creating code words from some of these humorous events will help relieve tensions when a similar event threatens to evolve.
When either my husband or I say something that is insensitive to the work effort done by the other, all we have to say is "I hate kidney beans", and the other one immediately realizes their actions are bordering on being insensitive.
It's an easy way to control tense situations
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A word of caution, be sensitive to the situation. There are times when humor is neither appropriate or too late in coming and will be viewed as sarcasm. Sarcasm has no place in true efforts to communicate.
Step #5 - Be Fair
Be careful when discussing sensitive issues and don't fall into touchy subjects that you know will enflame the argument.
Looking for fair solutions may require compromising or acquiescing. Remember, you both need to give, sometimes a little
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Step #6 - Finding a Peaceful Stalemate
There are times when you need to just agree to disagree. You don't always have to agree 100% with your spouse.
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